Study vs Having Fun

It is important to study to do well in school but it is also important to have fun.

Studies
If you study without fun you will become boring, ant-social, depressed, disconnected, and not know how to deal with people in the real world.

It is important to know to deal with people in the real world because if you cannot network or do well socially you will have a hard time finding jobs, finding a life partner, getting raises, making friends, enjoying life, and most of all knowing yourself. Being social will help you understand yourself more than you can comprehend at the start of your life.

Friends vs Lovers

Have you ever thought you loved your friend and could be more? That might be possible. You sure have to have a good connection with someone to be a lover but that doesn't mean it will work with your best friend.

The kind of connections have to be special to work with a mate. You can have a great friend of the opposite sex but not have the feeling of love attached to it. You might not get that amazing feeling in your heart, mind, and stomach when you think of the person. You might think about them all the time. You might hang out with them all the time but that sure doesn't mean its going to work out for anything more.

What is it about a lover that makes them just that? What differentiates a best friend from a lover other than not taking the chance?

Love vs Sex

Love, sex, and sex with love. They are all different. Some say you can't have sex without falling in love. That is crap continued by people that have never had crazy sex with someone they didn't love. Just pure enjoyment.

Love is the addiction you have to someone. That feeling of awesomeness in your heart, mind and soul when you think about that special someone that has the same kind of happiness when you are around them. The same kind of joy. I say addiction not like an obsession where you are a crazy person but where the feeling of enjoyment arises when you think about the person or are around them or hear about them or has anything to do with them. It is not the constant thought of the person. Sure you probably think about them a lot but not constantly.

Emotional/Mental vs. Sexual Compatibility

Most people say don't have sex before you are married. Well that's a great idea and all for many reasons. For instance it will be a huge surprise...hopefully in a good way on your honeymoon night. Then there is the problem with having a kid that one person doesn't want and many other things.

You can be extremely compatible on an emotional/mental level and love being around each other but if you do not have the same sexual wants as your mate then you are going to have some serious friction in that marriage. Most likely it will break your marriage. Sex is intimate and a bonding experience not just pleasure for a married couple. The people that can't understand the difference between sex and love need to read about it.

Concepts - Shallow vs Deep

Most concepts have a shallow way of viewing them as well as much more complex way of viewing them. Most people will view a concept in a shallow way. This is because the mind is designed to work efficiently as possible. We prioritize things. So we generally take a concept as quickly as possible. The people that process more data will view a concept more deeply generally than those that do not process very much data.

However even people that process a lot of data will end up viewing most of life in a shallow way. Sometimes we don't realize there is possibly a deeper reason to things or that we should even investigate to find out if there is or not.

Emotion vs Logic

Emotion and logic are generally in a fight to see who wins. Honestly emotion always wins in the long run of the decision but in the short term the emotions can lose out.

For instance let's say that you are playing rock paper scissors or some other quick petty game. Now in this game you are going to play to figure out who gets to pick the movie of the night. So whoever wins the most out of five tries will win the movie pick. So let's say you start and it goes like this:

The Master Key to Life

It took a long journey to find the master key to life. I hope it will serve you well. Fully understanding it will give you the purest form of empathy you can obtain without being a pushover. It gives near perfect decision making ability to you. It will open your eyes to why all that has happened, all that is happening, and all that will happen is the way it is.

For you to understand this concept you will first need to understand what Nature vs Nurture is.

For a long time I wasn't sure how logic and emotion really worked together. I had been doing a lot of research into why we do things. I have done this research into myself, others, resource materials, etc. for years. Finally I figured out the master key to life. The thing that makes everything understandable.

Think of a child. They are born with what nature gave them. Their genetic makeup and dispositions. It makes them who they are. If you watch them you see that they do everything to entertain themselves. Everything they do is to make themselves feel good. Anything else is because they are forced to by instinct.

So here is the key...

Nature vs Nurture

Since this topic is what actually forms who you from the beginning we can start here.

Let's first define the terms.

Nature

• The physical world and how it operates without mankind interfering with it.
• Genetic dispositions of a person which affect personality, physical growth, and mental capabilities.

Nurture

• Influences of mankind or nature that mold and change the outcome a human being. 

Wanting vs Doing

The mind is a funny thing. You may feel you want to do something yet for some reason you just don't do it. This is a common thing people overlook and claim the person just has no idea what they are saying.

There are feelings and there is logic. Wanting to do something generally comes from an emotional feeling wanting to be met. However the mind presents logic opposed to it. Or the situation may be in reverse. The action generally is caused from whichever is stronger at the moment.

This does not excuse behavior, it only explains it.