"Who's your daddy?" Concept

This phrase is taken by many to be very sexy and by some to be very disgusting.

I would like to clear up a few things so you can see the reasoning for this.

• Men want to be needed. (please be sure to notice I said WANT to be NEEDED instead of need to be wanted or some other variation) 
• Little girls are seen to be innocent and pure
• Dads are seen as a strong male leader who dominates the family with sheer power and confidence

The connotation of daddy conjures up a feeling of the innocent power gap which is powerful when in terms of sexual adventures. No the man isn't thinking of the woman as a little girl and no the girl is not thinking of the man as her father. It is purely the power and innocents which drives such an emotional rush while at the same time leaving behind the pedophile / incest concept.

However everybody has different hangups and different fetishes. So if your not into this then don't worry. If you are then OK. Not everyone has to be into the same things. This just merely explains it.

Friends vs Lovers

Have you ever thought you loved your friend and could be more? That might be possible. You sure have to have a good connection with someone to be a lover but that doesn't mean it will work with your best friend.

The kind of connections have to be special to work with a mate. You can have a great friend of the opposite sex but not have the feeling of love attached to it. You might not get that amazing feeling in your heart, mind, and stomach when you think of the person. You might think about them all the time. You might hang out with them all the time but that sure doesn't mean its going to work out for anything more.

What is it about a lover that makes them just that? What differentiates a best friend from a lover other than not taking the chance?

Love vs Sex

Love, sex, and sex with love. They are all different. Some say you can't have sex without falling in love. That is crap continued by people that have never had crazy sex with someone they didn't love. Just pure enjoyment.

Love is the addiction you have to someone. That feeling of awesomeness in your heart, mind and soul when you think about that special someone that has the same kind of happiness when you are around them. The same kind of joy. I say addiction not like an obsession where you are a crazy person but where the feeling of enjoyment arises when you think about the person or are around them or hear about them or has anything to do with them. It is not the constant thought of the person. Sure you probably think about them a lot but not constantly.