"Who's your daddy?" Concept

This phrase is taken by many to be very sexy and by some to be very disgusting.

I would like to clear up a few things so you can see the reasoning for this.

• Men want to be needed. (please be sure to notice I said WANT to be NEEDED instead of need to be wanted or some other variation) 
• Little girls are seen to be innocent and pure
• Dads are seen as a strong male leader who dominates the family with sheer power and confidence

The connotation of daddy conjures up a feeling of the innocent power gap which is powerful when in terms of sexual adventures. No the man isn't thinking of the woman as a little girl and no the girl is not thinking of the man as her father. It is purely the power and innocents which drives such an emotional rush while at the same time leaving behind the pedophile / incest concept.

However everybody has different hangups and different fetishes. So if your not into this then don't worry. If you are then OK. Not everyone has to be into the same things. This just merely explains it.

Real Experiences vs Taught Experiences

A taught experience can only inform of the perils you may be faced with only logistically. You can be told it will hurt, you can be told what effects it will have on your life.

The best way we learn things is with emotional tagging. It embeds things into us a great deal as we become emotional vulnerable and able to have our logic constructs rewritten.

A real experience has all the facets needed in order to make a huge impression on a person. It has the emotional trauma, the detailed emotions that go into it, the detailed consequences that you will live out.

So if you really want to learn something... go do things and get the experience. I can only tell you so much but you probably need to feel it.

If I said that being shot really sucks and hurts really bad you would not be fully aware of what it actually is like as the details are lacking and are not a common experience you feel all the time. Sometimes you must be burned in order to feel the full fury of the experience and have your life changed forever. Hopefully in a positive direction but we can only hope so much.